Nowadays, it is very rare for the old, the middle and the young to live under the same roof at the same time. There are various differences in ideology and way of life. Living together, it is inevitable that there will be minor conflicts and disagreements. As the saying goes, harmony makes wealth. How can harmony be maintained for a long time?
First, we need to know which orientations correspond to different family members in the geography. The northwest part of the home belongs to the master, the oldest male member. Generally speaking, this position should not be missing, because it is easy to leave the family leaderless, no one to make big decisions. Simple solutions include placing bronze or calligraphy in the room. The southwest represents the oldest female member of the family, and if a corner is missing, China can be placed to resolve it.
In a family with three generations living together, these two places are most suitable for the elders’ rooms. If the younger generation of the family lives in these two places, it is easy to cause the younger generation to disrespect the elders and affect the communication between the family. In addition, if there are minors in the family, their room is not suitable for the room next to the elders (grandparents), because the two completely different aura will easily disturb each other. In the case of independent houses or villas, the old man’s room is suitable for placement on the first floor, close to the earth is conducive to health, the most unsuitable to live in the basement, where the Yin qi is too heavy. Rooms without ventilation and light are not suitable for the elderly.
It is best to avoid the “door to door” layout of the family members’ rooms, which is the most likely structure for family quarrels. If it is not convenient to change, you can add a curtain on the door to resolve. In the case of a large number of members in the home, you should pay more attention to the space shared by members. The restaurant is the place where the family gathers every day. It should be noted here that everyone should have enough dining space and try to avoid the situation that members are isolated because the table is not big enough. At the same time, the dining room and living room need to have plenty of light, and it is best to keep ventilated. The living room is where most of your family meets, so it’s important to keep it clean and tidy. If the living room is poorly maintained, it is easy for family members to grow apart from each other.
When three generations are in the same room, there is also attention to the use of color in the home. Children’s rooms can be more bold to use bright colors, the elderly room is plain for good. In the living room and other public areas, it is recommended to use moderate colors, such as white, beige and pale color.
q: The relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is seriously discordant, is there any taboo?
a: Generally speaking, it is easy to cause discord in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: mother-in-law and daughter-in-law room “door to door”, kitchen straight to the balcony, kitchen in the center of the house.
q: The eldest daughter always plays outside and does not like to come home. Is there any way to avoid estrangement?
a: You can try to put green plants, books and other wooden objects in the southeast space.
q: Can old people have toilets in their rooms?
a: In most cases there is no harm. It is also convenient for old people to have toilets in their rooms.
Nine stars note:
The five elements of a white Wolf star belong to water. When a white star works, it affects all the links related to water in the home.
Two Hei giant gate star five elements belong to the soil, representing trash cans and accumulated debris, affecting people’s health;
Sanbilu star five elements belong to the wood, on behalf of the home withered branches and leaves, cracking yellow wood products and books, affecting the image of career and travel;
Four green Wenquxing five elements belong to wood, on behalf of the lush flowers and wood furniture, floors and crafts in the home, affecting the cleanliness of the home and people’s reputation;
Five Huang Lian Zhen star five elements belong to the soil, affect the family of people’s actions of the cause of fruit karma;
The six Baiwu Quxing and five elements belong to gold, representing gold, bronze, air conditioning and refrigerators in the home, affecting people’s health;
The seven red and broken military stars and five elements belong to gold, representing sharp objects in the home such as kitchen knives and scissors, which affect people’s respiratory and reproductive systems.
Eight white left auxiliary star five elements belong to the soil, on behalf of the household ceramic, purple sand and other furnishings, affecting people’s wealth;
Nine purple right Bute star five elements belong to fire, on behalf of the home stove, fireplace and other open fire, affect people’s peach luck.
From October 8 to 22, 2016, we’ll take a brief look at the seven red broken stars due north. The seven red stars in the nine stars, is one of the stars that have a bad effect on people, often associated with oral error, health conditions, etc. To resolve the negative influence of the seven red stars, we can add water elements in the space due north, such as blue and black curtains, carpets, etc. Fish tanks play a very important role in the geography, so they need to be used carefully, so they are not recommended.
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